Let it Go.

Spring/Summer

December 17, 2014

  1. Alyssa Aguero says:

    I think you are so strong and beautiful to post something like this. I was a victim of sexual abuse for a year when I was 11 years old. I understand your choice of “letting it go”. It’s something you need to do in order to move on. Thank you for posting something like this. God bless!

    xx, Alyssa
    http://www.kneehighsandpumpkinspice.com/

  2. Tiffany says:

    You are one of the bravest, strongest, and kindest women I know. I loved you infinitely before I knew this story, I loved you infinitely when you shared this burden with me months ago, and I love you infinitely now for being brave enough to use your trials to inspire others who might face similar hardships. You are an angel, plain and simple. I know God is looking out for you, even when it doesn’t feel that way. I am so happy to call you my friend.

  3. Savannah says:

    You are such an inspiration to all of us. Your beauty, love, dedication and inspiration feeds into all of your readers each and every day. I feel so fortunate to have been able to “meet” you through the web and I look forward to meeting you one day very soon! Love you girl and so happy you shared this amazing post with us all! I will be setting balloons free before the end of the year! 🙂

  4. bee says:

    This was s o brave on your part…. I wish you all the strength…. you are so beautiful inside and out…

  5. Brooke says:

    Wow…I am speechless and heartbroken that this happened to you. However, I admire you for having the courage to speak out. You are a beautiful young women and your message will be heard loud and clear. You are triumphing over a terrible situation and you are not allowing what happened to stop you from living a rich full life. God will continue to provide, put your trust in him. Hugs!

  6. Teresa says:

    You are truly an amazing young woman. When I was a year younger than you something very traumatic happened to me and as I look back I don’t think I handled it as gracefully as you have handled this horrible moment in your life. This year (years after my initial trauma) I suffered two horrific health issues that have left me feeling broken and as though this year has taken any strength I had left in me. I started following your instagram because of your beautiful photos and yet here I end this year seeing that even though we have never met in person we were still meant to cross paths. Not just for a love of fashion but because of a love for life. Thank you for your inspiring words. I’m sure you are touching more lives than you know. May you have a happy, healthy new year that is full of love and laughter.

  7. Grace says:

    I would be lying if I said that I didn’t tear up {aka bawl} reading this post. You’re such a strong, beautiful, and inspiring woman. I feel an overwhelming amount of respect for you. I’ve been struggling a bit with my faith as of lately, mostly because I’ve drifted away from prayer–but your post has inspired me to improve it. Thank you for sharing such a personal post–your strength is immeasurable.

    “Why are we inspired by another person’s courage? Maybe because it gives us the sweet and genuine surprise of discovering some trace, at least, of the same courage in ourselves.” -Laurence Shames

    xo,
    Grace

  8. Jannely says:

    This is a very inspiring story. Never be ashamed what happened to you because God will always have your back. I enjoyed reading it and loved the idea of the balloons!

  9. Shauni says:

    Amazing post! I caught myself almost in tears. I admire your courage for speaking out on this. You give me hope that all things are possible. Long as you keep the faith and have God on your side, you will be good. Your faith will take you places that you never could imagine. I think we all should do let go of all the issues and troubles of 2014 in the form of balloons as you did. Thank you for sharing.

  10. Nesha says:

    Lauren, this post made me tear up a bit and in more ways than one, gave me hope; hope that this too shall pass and I too can get pass the horrible sexual assault that still plagues me and I am afraid to talk about. I now realize how much I have allowed this assault, that happened to me as a child; to dictate my life. Thank you for this post, it has done more for me than you will ever know. xo Nesha @ Island Hipster.

  11. Stefanie says:

    Amazing post! Out of every bad situation you may encounter, there is always some good that comes out of it. Your ability to speak and encourage others is the good that has come out of it! Continue being brave and keep your faith close to you. I wish you the best!

    xo,
    Stef

  12. Makayla M. says:

    Lauren, this post is amazing. If any of your followers look at you differently, it’s that they see you as a stronger person than they did before. Your story is touching and uplifting that you can look toward the future with a smile. I’m so happy you shared this, and I hope 2015 is an amazing year for you! You deserve it, and your blog rocks. Xo

    Makayla,
    Fashionably Kay

  13. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I know it wasn’t easy for you to be so candid and open about this horrible thing you’ve grappled with. I admire your resilience and strength, and am so happy that you’ve chosen to lean on Jesus and to allow Him to use you to do amazing work, instead of allowing it to make you bitter and hard, as it would be so, so easy to do. (And really, if you had, who could blame you?) You are a beautiful person, inside and out, and I am so heartbroken that this happened to you. You are inspiring so many girls who have faced similar situations, and I am so proud of you for coming forward with this! I will keep you in MY prayers and am so happy that the blogging world brought us together!

    xx Stephanie
    http://asparklefactor.com

  14. Carmen says:

    This is truly beautiful and I am so happy you decided to share your story with readers. Its important that other women know that they are not alone in this and that there is a God who will guide them through it! Your courage and bravery to share your story is commendable. And I pray many blessings and favor happen in your life!

    Love,
    Carmen.

  15. Allyssa says:

    You are beyond loved and admired, Lauren! You have such a beautiful, successful, and happy life ahead for you. THANK YOU for sharing your story and turning such a dark, negative event into such an uplifting, beautiful article to help women everywhere. 2015 has great things in store for you, beautiful! <3

  16. Mallory B says:

    You are so incredibly brave!!! This was so inspirational and Such a strong message!

  17. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I think it is very brave of you to write about this hurtful event in your life. I believe God has a reason for everything, but sometimes is hard to not ask ourselves “why”? You are beautiful and God is going to use you in a special way :). God Bless You and your family!
    http://love-pink-forever09.blogspot.com/

  18. I read this post last night & felt so many emotions for you — first sadness, but then complete awe. You have such a positive spirit and now knowing your past trials and tribulations, it’s even more inspiring now. Thank you for sharing this on your blog, girl. Cheers to a brand new year and truly, letting go! Xo, Alison

    http://www.simplyfairbyalisonjeanine.com

  19. Monica says:

    Lauren,

    This post completely broke my heart and completely lifted my spirits all at the same time. We never will fully understand Gods plan for our lives, but hey, we aren’t supposed too. You are truly amazing for sharing such a personal story. It absolutely kills me that such an awful thing happened to such a beautiful person (inside and out). You are such an inspiration to so many. Although I haven’t dealt with a situation quite like yours, I definitely have other things that I need to “let go”. Thanks for sharing this sweet girl. Your strength and courage are incredible. Love you!!! <3

  20. Andrea says:

    I couldn’t believe such a horrible thing happened to such a wonderful person like yourself.
    You’re extremely brave in sharing but I’m more impressed with the way you’ve let things go, that is the most difficult part when dealing with things that have hurt us.

    2015 will be your year <3
    Love you girly!

    xx,
    Andrea

  21. Adriana says:

    Lauren, you are one of a kind brave, beautiful girl! I know Jesus will make beauty from ashes in you. If you can read that book from Joyce Meyer (maybe you already have), I know you will find the purpose in all these since you already started! Many girls will come up to you looking for help. This is a crime that we all woman (and men) have to fight together. I am only concerned that there are a rapist out there and it could be more victims. I do believe in redemption (since I was forgiven too of all my sins by Jesus) but I don’t know if not pressing charges is the right idea (just my opinion). Letting go is important, but also we need to create awareness of this. You are a blessing!

  22. Genesis says:

    I am deeply sorry this happened to you. You are so brave to speak up and share with all of us what you went through. All the anger, the pain, and for something that NO ONE SHOULD EVER GO THROUGH- EVER! While reading this blog today, you’ve inspired me to let go of a lot of anger that I held onto for many years. Thank you so much for this and I hope 2015 is filled with joy and happiness for you, your family and everyone who reads your blog. Best wishes!

  23. joseph says:

    i so sorry that this happen to you.. but like you said he has to answer to God… God you be with you as he said lay all you problems at my feet… he is a healing God and i know through him you will have strenth and hope.. for this world is full of evil but thier day is coming to an end… when i was 13 i was sexual abouse by an older guy.. it took me a long time to get over it.. but i did most people dont know what i went though but i smile because i have God in my life.. so i say may God Bless you and give you strengh to carry on and hope for a better future….

  24. I am so encouraged by this message. It’s so funny how we have plans in our heads for how we want our “year” to be, but then God has something else in mind. Who knew that your year would turn out like this and God would use that tragic test and turn it into a beautiful testimony! So thankful to have read this. Keep inspiring women!

  25. Thanks for sharing your story! That took a lot of strength to open up about this and if people stop reading, then they are not the kind of readers you want following you. God is making you stronger.

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  27. This is beautiful- your strength and courage in coming out with this is inspiring. Thank you. You are beautiful and will help others by putting this out there!

  28. I;m sorry for what happened to you,and its not alright for him to Not be jailed for what he did. But I totally respect and admire your courageous decision. Im happy to know that you have put your faith and trust in God and have turned to HIM in your time of need. HE is your Strength and your protector, and only He knows how you are to learn and grow from this horrible experience. But you already have begun to transition your thoughts into healing by just sharing your experience with the world,WITHOUT SHAME. God will use you to reach others. Here are some great scripture verses, May God always be with you.

    Revelation 21:4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.

    Ephesians 4:31-32: Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as

    in Christ God forgave you.

    Psalm 28:7 The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped my heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song.

    Psalms 9: 9-10: 9 The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.

    Psalms 18:12 The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn [a] of my salvation, my stronghold.

    Psalm 34:18: The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirits.

    Psalm 71:20-21: You have allowed me to suffer much hardship, but you will restore me to life again and lift me up from the depths of the earth. 21 You will restore me to even greater honor and comfort me once again.

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  31. Sara says:

    I am so incredibly sorry that this happened to you, and I am so proud of you for sharing your experience online. Thank you for speaking up. You deserve so much love and praise. Blessings to you.

  32. Suzy Beltran says:

    Okay I can’t believe I commented (on instagram) that you are becoming my fave blogger WITHOUT reading this blog entry! Girl, you are a beautiful human being!!!!! I am officially inspired and in awe of you! I am from Miami but moved to Chicago to start a PhD program (in social work), and let me tell you, the social worker, the Miami girl, and my entire being is so proud of you! Keep on keeping on!

    xo,
    Suzy

  33. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. It is so inspiring how even during this hardest time in your life you still looked to God for your strength! I am a faith and fashion blogger, and you definitely inspire me to be bold! <3 Joelle

    http://www.mysundaydress.com

  34. Shevonne says:

    Lauren I am SO sorry this happend yo you. Thank you so much for sharing this. I can’t even imagine myself writing about something lime this but you are so brave, and for that I truly admire you
    Your post gas definitely helped me to be more aware of my surroundings. Stay beautiful and be careful eveywhere you go. I pray that things will get better for you.

    xoxo

    Shevonne

  35. Genev says:

    U are so brave & a beautiful, strong woman ….❤️ & ???????? to u …

  36. Kyia says:

    You are so strong and brave to share this post!! Thank you for being so open. This post makes me have the utmost respect for you as a person, not to mention you are one of my favorite bloggers!!

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